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Facts On Anger

Anger is a part of our emotion. It's a natural phenomenon. Anger is a frequently misunderstood emotion. People confuse it with aggression, violence,they think of it as mostly unhealthy and they fail to recognize the times in their lives when their anger has been positive.

'Gost In Dream' is real

When we sleep,we cycle through different stages. We start the night in non-rapid eye movement (NREM).sleep which gets progressively deeper.

The way you hold your fist reveals your internal, external and love personality

When we are angry or excited, we usually curl our fingers into a fist. However, different people have different ways of clenching their fingers into a fist.

Fascinating facts on Color psychology

What would be the world without colors? It would feel like an emotionless and lifeless space. Can you imagine the beauty of rainbow without its seven layers of colors.

Saturday, September 12, 2020

ARE YOU AN INTROVERT OR AN EXTROVERT?


                It's human nature to be curious about ourselves and others. Whether you take a more analytical, psychology-backed test or a fun zodiac-based quiz, you like to do it to gain insight on who you are. And people often identify with having introverted or extroverted personality types. Typically, introverts tend to enjoy more time to themselves, and are very aware of their internal thoughts and recharge more in solitude. Extroverts can be just the opposite. Extroverts are often more outspoken, outgoing and absolutely love being around other people. That's what really fills them up. Truly understanding each personality type and which one you are can help you manage a vast range of experiences.

Here are some common personality traits associated with INTROVERSION

1. Alone time is the best time
          The idea of being home alone is thrilling, not taxing. Those periods of solitude are crucial to an introvert's health and happiness. Whether you're simply spending time resting or engaging in an activity,solitude is a welcome relief. Introverts often enjoy reading, gardening, crafting, writing, gaming, watching movies, or doing any other activity that's performed alone. 

2.Introverts are in touch with feelings
          Introverts are masters of their emotions. They reflect until they are able to understand the triggers that are responsible for their negative thoughts. This retrospection helps them dig deep enough to deal with entrenched self defeating beliefs that limit their potential. 

3.They are introspective and curious
          They may find themselves daydreaming or working things out in their mind long before they put a plan of action in place or lift a single finger to change anything. Introverts have a very active inner thought process. That also leads them towards self-reflection and research. They are dedicated to pursuing their interests and feeling prepared and well-read. 

4.Introverts are good listeners
          Introverts listen before they speak. They watch from the sidelines and take some mental notes before they insert themselves into any social situations. This preparation allows them to enter a conversation confidently without stumbling over their words or doubting the accuracy of what they say. 

5.They're accused of zoning out a lot
          Introverts often "escape" from a situation by zoning out or letting their mind wander away from the task at hand. For them this may be a way to leave a situation that feels too chaotic or uncomfortable; it's a survival mechanism of sorts. But to others, it may seem like they're unfocused. 

6.Introverts are trustworthy people
          Introverts can keep secrets. They know how hard it can be to trust somebody, so they won't share a personal detail, if you don't want them to. This is exactly why introverts are excellent best friends. 

7.They take a handful of true, close friends over a bunch of acquaintances any day
          There's certainly nothing wrong with it, but few introverts prefer such large social circles. Instead, introverts truly value the meaning of fewer close friendships; they don't like to juggle emotions. And they might not have time to build up trust with dozens of acquaintances. Now, that doesn't mean that an acquaintance couldn't potentially become a close friend. But many introverts like to move at slower paces. 

8.Introverts are good at studying
          Introverts believe knowledge is power. They are intensely interested in the things that they care about and want to learn everything they can. This eagerness helps them become experts in their field. 

9.It's not uncommon for people to underestimate introverts
          They might not be the first to step up during pitch meetings,but that doesn't mean they don't have great ideas. It can be quite the internal struggle for an introvert to step forward and recieve credit for their hard work all while avoiding the spotlight. This can cause co-workers and some bosses to underestimate them,but don't be fooled. They celebrate their victories internally. 

10.Introverts are very observant
          Introverts identify changes in their environment very quickly. They will probably be the first person to notice a new haircut. This often causes their friends and co-workers to thank them for being so thoughtful. 

11.They love getting lost in a good book
          When introverts aren't entertaining themselves, they love to get lost in an exceptionally good book. It does not matter if the book is thriller, a non fiction or an autobiography, they simply love to immerse themselves in another world. Not to mention, novel-reading gives them more alone time. And very few introverts pass up that. 

12.Introverts are super focused
          Introverts concentrate with everything they've got. They make a point of paying attention to non-verbal cues that might reveal hidden meanings, because they know words are only half of the story. This ability helps them avoid potential misunderstandings. 

13.They are self sufficient
          Introverts are not dependent people. They believe it is foolish to depend on another person to take care of their material needs. This freedom makes them feel empowered,because they know they can manage any curve ball that life might throw at them. 

14.Introverts are thought-provoking when you get them talking
          introverts have interesting things to say. They might not be fans of small talk, but that doesn't mean they can't be engaging in a deep discussion. This distinction is a common source of confusion. Introverts are often considered to be "quiet",but that's not because they don't like to talk about trivial things. Introverts are passionate people who want to make the most of their days, so they'd rather not waste their time with a shallow conversation. If you want to find out how fascinating an introvert can be, simply ask them an intelligent question about a topic that they care about. 

15.They "feel" more
         One study shows that introverts are more likely to be diagnosed with depression. This could be, another study suggests, because introverts don't feel happy as often as extroverts. It's unclear why introverts don't report higher happiness levels, but it may have a lot to do with how introverts identify happiness. Introverts prefer a higher quality of friendships and emotional regulations. It may be difficult to achieve this high level of satisfaction constantly. 

Do you think that you might have EXTROVERSION personality traits? check out the list

1.They're inspired to socialize
          They tend to feel "charged up" and inspired after they've spent time with other people. Extrovert tend to find such social interactions refreshing and they actually gain energy from such exchanges. 
          When extroverts have to spend a lot of time alone, they often begin to feel uninspired and listless. If given a chance between spending time alone and spending time with other people,an extrovert will almost always choose to spend time with a group. 

2.Extroverts are outgoing and optimistic
         They are often described as happy, positive, cheerful,and sociable. They aren't as likely to dwell on problems or ponder difficulties. While they experience difficulties and troubles like anyone else, extroverts are often more able to let it roll off their backs.

3.They prefer to talk out problems or questions
         When they are facing a problem, they prefer to discuss the issues and various options with others. Talking about it, helps them explore the issues in-depth and figure out which option might work the best. After a difficult day at work or school,talking about it with friends or family can help them feel less stressed out.

4.They have a lot of friends and acquaintances
          Extroverts make new friends easily. This is in part,because they enjoy other people's energy and getting to engage with people around them. They also tend to have a large social network and many acquaintances. With pursuing new interests and activities,extroverts are often keen to expand their social circles. 

5.They love to talk it out
          Just as introverts are known for being on the quiet side, extroverts are known for being talkative.Instead of processing thoughts and emotions internally, extroverts like to use talking to sort out their ideas. 
          That doesn't mean they have a constant external monologue of emotions,but they prefer to talk things out with others.Whether it's a disagreement,a project at work, or a netflix series they are obsessed with, extroverts will seek conversation to work out all the details. 

6.They are very open
          While introverts are sometimes perceived as closed off and aloof, extroverts are typically very open willing to share their thoughts and feelings. Because of this other people generally find that extroverts are easier to get to know. 

7.They are flexible
          Extroverts are often adaptable to any situation and innovative when problems arise. While they may be organized, not all extroverts need a plan of action before they can begin a project, plan a vacation, or undertake any task. Spontaneous decision may be welcomed. 

8.Extroverts like to take the lead
          In addition to being socially active and outgoing,extroverts often enjoy leadership roles. Whether they're the friend who sends out cute email invitations for bunch every week or the CEO of a company,an extrovert probably likes the attention and action that leadership brings. 

9.They aren't afraid of risk
          Extroverts may engage in risky behavior. Some theories assert that their brain is wired to reward them for it,if it goes well.One study found that extroverts who take risks and succeed are rewarded with dopamine, a chemical that triggers the reward center of the brain. In the case of the study, participants gambled, but the response could be true for any number of activities. Extroverts may be more willing to take risks,because the benefit is a surge of chemicals that stimulate the brain. 

10.Extrovert like to look on the bright side of the life
          The best news about being an extrovert?They're usually more optimistic and less inclined to have anxiety and they're often happier. 

INTROVERSION/EXTROVERSION IS A SPECTRUM
         Most people are not purely introverted or purely extroverted. They fall somewhere in the middle with characteristics of both. Also, people can change personalities over the course of lifetime. You may be more introverted as a child, but find that you're more extroverted as an adult. Fluctuations in the personality spectrum are normal. Some characteristics may be stronger,which is why people may self identify as an introvert or extrovert. 
          Your genes may play a significant role in determining where you will fall on the personality continuum.Research shows that people who are extroverted respond differently to dopamine, a chemical in the reward circuitry of your brain. Extroverts get a jolt of satisfaction or energy from social interactions,because of the chemical.Introverts feel overstimulated. 
          Your life experiences can significantly affect your personality, too. It's possible to change or slide slightly on the spectrum throughout your life. You may learn to interact with others differently and reap rewards differently as an adult. 

         There is no need to change or alter your personality. No matter what, your personality is a wonderful part of who you are. 

          
          

Tuesday, September 8, 2020

Mind blowing facts about LOVE

      
          When you think about love, you probably picture a couple holding hands or driving off into the sunset together. Falling in love is exciting, colors seem brighter, obstacles seem to vanish. The whole world is a more beautiful place, because of our newfound lover. Although this may seem true at the moment,some of those strong feelings are occuring due to chemicals released in the brain. Although the science behind love isn't extremely romantic,it is quite fascinating to realize the complexity of our bodies.  
           Love hold so much space not only in our lives, but in our psychology,in our biology and in our history. The psychological side of love is an amazing, mind-bending roller coaster of emotions, behaviors and biological processes. Love is something we all experience,but it is not something we fully understand. These meaningful psychology facts about love will blow your mind and may be even find it in your own life. 

EYE CONTACT IS A KEY
            Studies have shown that couples who are in love are so bonded that after 3 minutes of looking into each others eyes, their heart rates will synch up with each other. 

BUTTERFLIES ARE REAL, STRESS RELATED THING
           The expression of having butterflies in your stomach is a real feeling that is caused by an adrenaline rush. When and if you fall for someone, it will probably be hard to avoid the feeling of butterflies dancing and fluttering around in your stomach. This happens as a body's response to a fight or flight situation. The next time you feel this adrenaline rush on seeing someone, know that love is in the air. 

CUDDLING TRIGGERS THE SAME AMOUNT OF NEUROLOGICAL REACTIONS AS PAINKILLERS
            Oxytocin, the so-called love or cuddle hormone is produced during an embrace or cuddle. Oxytocin appears in a person's brain, and their ovaries and testicles are also involved in this bonding process. Oxytocin helps to decrease headaches and can help pain go away for up to 4 hours. So if you are feeling tired, stressed or in pain - cuddling is a great alternative to any painkillers. 

"BROKEN HEART" IS JUST NOT AN EXPRESSION, ITS AN ACTUAL MEDICAL CONDITION
             Research has shown that intense or traumatic events, such as break ups, divorce, physical distance or the loss of a loved one can contribute to real physical pain in a person's heart. This is an actual condition known as the broken heart syndrome. It occurs when deep emotional triggers cause distress in the brain and significantly weaken a person's heart causing such symptoms as chest pain or shortness of breath. This tends to affect women more than men, and can easily be misdiagnosed
as a heart attack. 

LOVE IS BLIND 
                It does not seem to matter what others say to a new lover. He/she is always perfect in our eyes. This blindness is critical for us to move forward in our relationship and is usually required to move onto the "attachment stage" as scientists call it so that they can stay in love long enough to have and raise children; in other words to populate the earth. 

YOUR BODY HAS 'VEIN OF LOVE'
                The fourth finger of the left hand has the vena amoris, the 'vein of love'  which is believed to be connected directly to the heart. This is the reason why we put the engagement ring on the fourth finger of left hand. 

BEING IN LOVE IS IDENTICAL TO BEING HOOKED IN COCAINE
              Both falling in love and taking a dose of cocaine will give your brain similar feelings and sensations of euphoria. Falling in love produces several euphoria - inducing chemicals in your body, will stimulate about 12 areas of an individual's brain. 

LOVE WORKS FAST
              It takes only 2-4 minutes to fall for someone or to make good impression on someone. It has little to do with what you say and more to do with how you say. Your body language,tone and pace take front seat here, not words. 

YOUR NERVE CELLS WORK BETTER DURING THE FIRST YEAR OF LOVE
               A protein in our bodies called nerve growth factor (NGF) that is important for the functions of certain sympathetic and sensory nerve cells seems to thrive during the first year of being in love. Basically our senses are heightened and our fight or flight response system is more active during young love. 

LOVE IS HEALING
                Research shows that long term couples with deep, strong connections can successfully soothe each other in stressful situations or when one of them experiences pain, simply by holding hands. 

INDIVIDUALS WHO ARE IN LOVE HAVE CHEMICAL SIMILARITIES IN LINE WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER (OCD) 
                 Research has shown that couples who are in an early stage of love possess lower levels of serotonin,which is associated with happiness and well-being,and higher levels of cortisol,which is associated with stress.These levels are very similar to people who suffer from OCD. This can explain why we feel,act,or present ourselves in ways out of character when we fall in love with someone. 

IF YOU LOOK INTO A STRANGER'S EYES,YOU CAN ACTUALLY FALL IN LOVE
                 It is because our body produces a chemical, phenyl ethylamine, which is also related to the body's fight or flight response. Too much staring means you're ready to fight and in essence,also ready to fall in love. 

JUST BY LOOKING AT THE PICTURE OF YOUR BELOVED ONE,YOU CAN FEEL SENSE OF RELIEF
            It has the same effect as the presence of someone. 

OPPOSITES DON'T ATTRACT  
              Individuals who appear similar and at the same level of attractiveness are more likely to end up together than people who look significantly different. Many social researchers indicate that there is a pattern in how people chose their mates or romantic relationships. This is demonstrated through a matching hypothesis, which indicates that people are more attracted to others who share a similar attraction level with them. 

WOMEN LIKE TESTOSTERONE
                  Testosterone creates desire as well as aggressive behavior, which may push you to pursue the person who is creating this desire. Women around world are more likely to fall in love with partners with ambition, education, wealth, respect, status, a sense of humor, and who are taller than they are. Women also prefer distinctive cheekbones and a strong jawbone which are linked to testosterone levels. 

SOME PEOPLE CAN'T FEEL LOVE
                  Some individuals who claim never to have felt romantic love suffer from hypopituitarism, a rare disease that doesn't allow a person to feel the rupture of love. 

The expression "keep your loved ones close" can have an even greater meaning,as one of the greatest predictors of love is proximity or physical closeness. Being close to another individual can contribute to increased emotion and feelings of want and desire. 

You really love him/her right?  Did I mention a name? No I didn't. But still, you thought of that person. It's a typical psychological reaction.