Interesting body language facts

          

          Psychology interests everyone. Reading people and their actions and getting to know them better is always a process full of curiosity. Psychology says that body language can tell a lot about person. 

          "Actions speak louder than words"

          Everyone has heard that expression before. But have you really thought about what it means? According to research, approximately 80-90 percent of the meaning of a message lies in the non-verbal part of it. That is why it's so important to communication, and even more vital to understand the nature of it. 

          Why do we say with our hands, our posture, or our faces? What are the basics of non-verbal communication? These body language facts can help you interpret the ways in which people are communicating without saying a word. Unlocking the secrets of body language is a talent you can learn. You will learn more about what others are telling you, and you will realize what image you are projecting yourself. Whether it's showing confidence or detecting lies, knowing more about body language is useful. 

1. Facial expressions

          Surprise, sadness, fear, disgust, happiness, and anger are considered as facial expressions that are universal by nature. However currently experts have been arguing that facial expressions that convey embarrassment and contempt are also universal by nature. 

2. Eye contact

          We initiate eye contact in order to focus on the target we want to talk to. We would like their attention and they would like ours if they are interested or attentive to the conversation. 

3. Touch

          When feeling uncomfortable, men prefer to touch their face. Women on the other hand, prefer to touch their neck, clothing, jewelry, arms and hair. 

4. Thumb sucking

          It means the person is stressed, relieving that, and/or thinking out of mind. 

5. Improper eye contact

          However, eye contact doesn't always stay in the same all the time. Not maintaining proper eye contact means someone is not paying attention, distracted, or avoidant. 

6. Rubbing hands

          Rubbing their hands together generally means that a person has a positive feeling about something. 

7. Crossed arms

          Usually, when someone crossed their arms whilst they were in the process of talking, the message is likely to be avoidant and defensive. This may indicate a sign of self-protection and a lack of openness during the conversation. 

8. Squint eyes

          When people see what they don't like, feel threatened or are unhappy, they squint their eyes. 

9. Imitation

          As you engage in a conversation, do you find the person in front of you is copying your gesture? If that's the case, it is usually because of an unconscious attempt to bond the relationship between you. 

10. Raised eyebrows

          When we raise our eyebrows, it means we are contemplating what we're listening to and that we're mildly intrigued. 

11. Lean forward

          When someone starts to lean forward slowly as you talk, there is a likelihood that they are interested in your speech. The reason they lean forward is that they would like to learn more about your opinions and thoughts. 

12. Swinging from heels to toes shows that a person is anxious about something. 

13. Slouch

          In certain situations, such as a group talk or interview, some of us may sometimes feel overwhelmed or intimidated. If you happen to see someone's shoulders shrink or slouch rather than sitting up straight. It is possible for that person to feel afraid or even unmotivated. 

14. Arms akimbo

          Planting your hands with your thumps backward on your hips and elbows out in a 'V' shape displays dominance or authority. 

15. Blink

          Blinking is one of the crucial things to recognize as well. If someone is blinking excessively, again, there may be a chance that someone has just finished telling you a lie, which is called "rebound blinking"

16. Chin in hand

          When someone puts their chin in their hands, they're presenting that face as if they're trying to say 'This is me'.

17. Stiffness

          With the tension in the limbs and other body parts and limited mobility, there is a probability that someone is lying. They are usually trying to hide something since they do not want anyone to find out. 

18. Nodding

          During a conversation, if someone is nodding excessively, it means that either they're worried about what you think of them or they're doubtful about their ability to follow your instructions. 

19. Blushing

          Depending on the context, a red face may usually mean shyness or embarrassment. However, it may also imply someone is holding a "flight or fight" mechanism, which consists of hostility and anger. 

20. Lip movement

          Usually, when someone is looking for a romantic relationship, they will typically smack or lick their lips to show more desire of wanting that person. This phenomenon also exists in primates when they are sexually attracted to their mate.